Melalut..

Apala bangang sangat orang kita ni? Takde bahan nak cakap2, gi cakap pasal pemikiran busuk dia sendiri. Semua ni semata-mata nak dapat publisiti murahan. Ingatkan artis2 Malaysia je yang suka publisiti murahan..Sapa si Munirah Bahari ni? Ustazah ke? Cikgu? Apsal yang dia kecoh sangat pasal uniform sekolah budak pompuan?? For God's sake, it's freaking baju kurung!! It's not supposed to be revealing! Yang minah ni bising2 nak suruh tukar warna baju tu apsal? Pemikiran dia sorang je yang kolot camtu, takyah la nak babitkan satu Malaysia! I know she's trying to make people see 'this', but it's just so damn lapuk la..Banyak lagi sebab- penyebab kes2 rogol ni. I thought cerita2 pasal kena rogol sebab baju2 seksi dah lapuk! People nowadays don't think like that anymore tapi ada jugak yang tersekat kat zaman tu. Aiyohh....

Don't blame the school uniform for being transparent, don't blame the girls who wear colorful sexy bras underneath it, blame the rapist who has dirty thoughts and made these girls' life miserable. Budak2 ni macam2 perangai. Most teenage girls goes through that phase where they want to 'show off' their figures to attract boys, to be accepted among their peers, to compete with one another to see who is more cantik or who has kiss/slept with their boyfriends. Biasala tu...Unless, they're freaking tomboy like me who only cares about brass band rehearsals and Nsync!!

My advise to parents would be selalu2 la check baju anak2 awak make sure takde yang terlebih singkat or terlebih jarang (unless you dress like that too), but at the same time keep an open mind. As long as berpakaian ikut tempat dan keadaan, okayla. What I'm saying is that, if girls want to wear short skirts, bagi je la pakai sementara masih muda, biar diorang merasa (mak2 dgn nenek2 kita dulu pakai seksi sial..kebaya jarang, mini skirt, siap pakai tube top traditional a.k.a kain batik lagi masa basuh kain kat sungai!). Sorry to say la, who am I to judge what people wear, tapi sesetengah orang tu dah jadi nenek pun duk pakai skirt tahap paha dengan kakai berkedut2, hah, mana lagi buruk? Kaki budak sekolah ke kaki nenek? (My nenek wears baju Kedah dengan kain batik, not mini skirt). Jangan larang banyak benda sangat sebab budak2 ni dia akan buat perangai kat luar rumah.

I notice that most Malay-Muslim parents force their daughters to wear the tudung when they hit certain age, and these girls usually wear it out of terpaksa and nak tutup mulut mak bapak yang bising tu. Although the intention of the parents is good, which is to teach their daughters to cover their aurat. But there's more than just covering your aurat to be a good person, at heart and mind. What usually happens is, when kids goes to KL for uni, hah, terbukak sana sini. Culture shock wa cakap lu! Yang sedih tu, bila balik kampung for semester break, or when the parents datang KL to visit them, time-time tu baru nak pakai tudung balik. Yang mak bapak ni ingat si anak ni baik la sangat sebab still covers her hair, tapi tak tau anak ko tu lepak Zouk dengan bareback dress! Come on la people! I used to wear the tudung, not because my parents forced me but because of peer pressure cuz apparently in my town, sapa yang tak pakai tudung tu are equals to bohsias. That's how low the level of thinking of the people at hometown back then! Skang dah ok skit..Back to my story, after form 4, I realized that wearing the tudung was not something that I want to do just yet. So I pun bukak tudung. Of course my parents bising bila I mula2 bukak tudung (reminder: they didn't force me in the first place). But I explain to them that eventually one day, I'll wear the tudung willingly when I'm ready to cover my aurat and have a better understanding of my obligation to God, because there's more to just the tudung in order to be a good Muslim (such as hati kena bersih, solat kena jaga, buat amal jariah, and so on...). My parents totally understand that. Now, I can wear knee-length skirt in front of my parents without having scolded by them. Takyah nak pura2 pakai tudung depan diorang, selalu cuak takut kantoi dengan parents and such. My parents pun tak bising, hati pun senang! I do have high respect for people who wears the tudung and you can see their adab memang kena dengan the way they dress.

Pesan untuk budak2 lak, dress accordingly. Nak pegi sekolah je, tempat ilmu, takyah la nak pakai bra berwarna-warni di sebalik baju kurung putih tu. Takde maknanya! Kalau nak pakai fancy2, keluar dengan kawan2, pakaila. I know you all terpengaruh dengan style Lindsay Lohan, Kat DeLuna, Vanessa Hudgens and what not, tapi ingatla, kita ni orang timur! Kita ada adab, ada budaya, takyah la nak agung2kan sangat budaya orang putih yang berak pun tak cebuk (ouch!!). Tak kisah la nak pakai singkat/ketat skit tapi jangan sampai ternampak benda2 yang tak cukup 'bloom' lagi. Biar kena dengan keadaan. Kalau berpakaian betul2, parents awak pun tak bising, awak pun takyah nak cover2 dengan parents takut kantoi semua. Semua hidup aman damai, kan??

Ni sebenarnya nak cakap pasal si Munirah Bahari ni, tapi dah melalut dah. Mampus aa!! Blog aku! Suka ati aku aa!! Hahahaha!!! Ha, untuk orang2 yang berfikiran macam si Munirah Bahari tu, jangan cakap syok sendiri je ek. Bukak skit minda tu, kaji dulu benda sebelum buat statement. Dah lapuk sangat pemikiran camtu...